Keep in mind the phenomenon called culture shock – a feeling of confusion felt by someone visiting or moving to a country they do not know much about. It is an experience of disorientation and adaptation to a new environment.
The first few months in a new country are full of stimulating experiences. You will meet many new people and will have to cope with many changes, which can at times be challenging and stressful. The more your home country differs from France, the more you may suffer from culture shock.
Give yourself time and do not be afraid to seek help and advice. As time goes by, you will become more familiar with French customs and the benefits of expatriation will outgrow the initial disadvantages and discomfort. You will for instance develop a quicker sense of adaptation, gain confidence when dealing with new situations and develop a better understanding of cultural subjectivity. These are qualities that will be highly valued on the job market.
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To make things easier when you arrive, here are some examples of attitudes to adopt or to avoid when moving to France...
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- Do be polite : Say « Bonjour » / « Bonsoir » (after 6pm) when entering a store, restaurant/café or bus. Say « Au revoir » when leaving. Use « s’il vous plaît » and « merci ». Also applies for e-mails to staff at the public service : absolutely avoid orders.
- Do dress appropriately (shorts/flip flops are too casual and reserved for the beach & exercising) & do wear shoes in public buildings (no walking around barefoot)
- Do think about a gift for your host when you are invited to someone’s place : flowers, chocolate or wine for example, fit most occasions.
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- Don’t use « tu » but « vous » until the person offers you to switch (more formal & respectful)
- Don’t eat & drink before everyone has been served. Sharing a meal is a social happening !
- Don’t make slurping noises. This is considered as bad manners
- Don’t give tips at the restaurant automatically. Service is included in the prices. If the service was exceptional, you can leave some additional euros on the table.
- Don’t be disappointed if social relations take more time to grow than you expected. French people won’t invite you to their homes right away; building up a network is a bit more challenging but be patient - good things take time !
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